I hate the term “falling in love”. I’m sure I’ve written about this before. Just, it makes it sound like love is this passive thing, something that just happens to you that you have no control over. I absolutely disagree with it. Somewhere down the line, even though it’s highly emotional, I believe you make a choice to love. And that goes for falling “out” of love also. Somewhere, that’s a choice you make. Not something that just happens to you.
The worst phrase I ever heard was someone “loving” someone but not being “in love” with them. Give me a freaking break.