“All happy marriages are alike and all unhappy marriages are different because in every happy marriage, you argue about the same thing over and over and over, and in every unhappy marriage you find a new thing to argue about every night. That’s why it’s good to have the one argument.”
I heard that in a Moth podcast and I found it pretty thought-provoking. Jieun always gets down that our fights seem to be about the same things over and over, makes her feel like there’s been no progress and that things will never change. But maybe there’s a different way to look at it. Maybe it’s good that when we fight, it’s about the same things, that it’s a sign that we’re not finding new things to get upset about.