Danny ChaiIf you ask me, and maybe I’m stating the obvious, but I think the whole point of Proverbs 31 is that beauty is secondary – it’s character that matters. So to me, it’s just as sinful to reject someone solely for their “beauty” as to pursue someone solely for the same reason. Either way, it’s just focusing on physical attributes. And that’s the sin.
You know why I say Jieun’s beautiful all the time? And I’m 70% serious about this reason. Someone in the Bible when it talks about marriage it says something about how men are supposed to present their wives as beautiful brides. Something like that. And you know, that’s talking about something spiritual. But I don’t understand the spiritual part. But I dunno, I think there’s something to that. I think it’s somewhat important for husbands to let their wives know that they think they’re beautiful. Not make them vain, but just let them know. I dunno, just my opinion.
Anyway, I realized something recently. I mean, I’ve always realized it but I get friendly reminders. I think Jieun’s the only person in the world that can handle who I am. I’m not saying this to be humble. It’s true. But yeah, anyone else, I don’t think they could stand me. So I’m pretty lucky.