I’ve decided hosting vids on my own site is too much trouble than it’s worth. From now on, I’m only updating vids on my Facebook profile. The quality is good enough, it’s free, and it has exactly the access control I need. So add me as a friend for vids, not that anyone cares.
On a related note, I’m now working for Facebook. So if you have feature requests, let me know. Can’t promise anything, but I can do my best.